Greeting Visitors in a Sunday School

During these first several days in January, I am on a mission trip in Nicaragua.  In my absence, I have scheduled a few posts and guests articles.
Today’s article gets into Welcoming First Time Visitors in your Sunday school class.  It comes from Sunday School Revolutionary.com and I have their permission to reprint it here.
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Greeting Visitors in a Sunday School

During these first several days in January, I am on a mission trip in Nicaragua.  In my absence, I have scheduled a few posts and guests articles.
Today’s article gets into Welcoming First Time Visitors in your Sunday school class.  It comes from Sunday School Revolutionary.com and I have their permission to reprint it here.
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Greeting church [...]

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A new Book review from the UK

Chris Walker’s “How to Welcome Church Visitors” is as relevant for the UK scene as it is for the USA. 

He invites us to strike the right balance between people’s need for personal space and their need to feel welcomed; asks what impression we give through the way we care for our premises; and considers how we extend hospitality in simple, practical ways. 

Most of his observations can be acted on without the need for cultural translation (except, perhaps, the American provision of “bathrooms” instead of “toilets”!) 

He fully recognizes that there is a God-factor that is outside of our control, but he does offer down-to-earth, practical factors that are properly our responsibility.  These are not churchy gimmicks but straightforward acts of kindness, care and consideration that help visitors want to come back.  It’s suprising how ‘obvious’ they are, and how easily they are overlooked!

paulstokes Rev Paul Stokes,

United Reformed Church Minister in Plymouth, Devon

Plymstock United Church

www.plymstock.org.uk

 

Order your downloadable copy: How to Welcome Church Visitors

Greeting Visitors in a Sunday School

During these first several days in January, I am on a mission trip in Nicaragua.  In my absence, I have scheduled a few posts and guests articles.

Today’s article gets into Welcoming First Time Visitors in your Sunday school class.  It comes from Sunday School Revolutionary.com and I have their permission to reprint it here.

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Greeting church visitors is everyone’s responsibility. However, it doesn’t always get done so many churches have organized greeting teams to serve a few weeks in a row.

The same principle applies in Sunday School. You would think this would not be a problem in Sunday School. Classes are smaller than worship attendance. The group should be able to recognize when someone is a guest. But, as I have said before, when it is everyone’s job this often results in no one taking responsibility for the job. It often has to be assigned in order for the job to be done. And frequently when it is someone’s job, then many others will join in carrying out the work–in this case greeting guests.

I believe Sunday School class greeters need training. Some people are naturally gregarious and yet they still may not know the best things to say and do as a class greeter. That is why I wanted to share the points from the above-mentioned article. It offers some concrete suggested which are directed toward welcoming “church visitors” but which can easily be applied to welcoming Sunday School guests. The article mentions three times/places where we need to greet guests: entrances, the front, and after. Allow me to adjust the article’s suggestions to apply to the class:

  • ENTRANCE: As members and guest enter, welcome them to the class. Use the name of the class. It can help them to know which one they liked and want to return to. Look them in the eyes. Make sure you smile. Put in a breath mint. Don’t be afraid to shake hands, but don’t squeeze too hard. Don’t pound people on the back–I learned this lesson the hard way with a lady who had just had shoulder surgery. Tell guests that you are glad they are here today. Share your name with those you don’t know. (They will usually share their names in return.)  Listen carefully when guests speak. If the class uses name tags (recommended), make sure you complete one for them or ask them to do so. Call guests by name and tell them you (or the teacher) would like the privilege of introducing them to the class in a few minutes and ask if they would be willing to complete a registration card. Sit with them during class–if possible. Introduce them to others around them. Don’t be afraid to ask if adult guests would like to join (on the first and successive Sundays). Invite guests to join you at the next class fellowship or invite them to your home for dessert or a meal.

  • FROM THE FRONT: During announcement time, make sure to introduce guests to the group (so everyone has an opportunity to hear the guests’ names hopefully again). Keep this somewhat low-key for the guests who may be a little less comfortable socially. When you (or the teacher) introduce them, make sure you avoid embarrassing them. Check on any uncertainty in name pronunciation. Don’t be afraid to look at the guest registration card to make sure you call the correct names. Give the teacher the card so he/she can thank guests for joining in the group at the end of the lesson. Include them in small group activities. Be open to their input during the lesson without forcing them to talk.

  • AFTER CLASS: Ideally class greeters are not choir members who have to leave class early or rush out at the end of class. The teacher’s words of appreciation of the guests at the end of class should be a reminder that members should also affirm the guests’ attendance. These moments just after the end of class are critical for conveying your interest in guests. Don’t rush out of class and ignore the guests. Smile. If possible, call them by name (especially easy when they are still wearing name tags). What to say can be as simple as shaking their hands and saying, “My name is … and I glad you were in the … class with us today.” (Can be easier for them to remember your name when you are still wearing your name tag.) As the class greeter, ask guests if they need you to help them locate their children and/or restrooms. If so, walk them there. If worship is after Sunday School, ask if they are staying for worship today. If so, walk them to worship. Engage in casual (not nosy) conversation and express your own appreciation of their attendance in Sunday School. When you arrive in worship, ask if the guests would like to sit with you. If they do so, casually introduce them to others in worship before the service begins. In worship, watch guests to see where they may be confused or need help. Do so to encourage and help without embarrassing. After worship thank them for attending. Ask if they have any questions or prayer requests. Contact them within 72 hours to express your appreciation, remind them of the upcoming class fellowship, and pray with them about prayer requests.

What else have you found helpful to say to (or do with) a guest? Engage in active listening. Care–do it and have it. Be present. Don’t embarrass. Be sensitive. Help. Be revolutionary!

Source: Sundayschoolrevolutionary.com, by Darryl Wilson, Kentucky Baptist Convention.

Is your faith in your conversations?

Today’s guest article is provided by Paul Stokes, renewal advocate for the Group for Evangelism and Renewal within the United Reformed Church (UK), or GEAR.

I am on mission work, conducting Evangelism Training Ministry in Nicaragua  working with Young Life Leadership on the Healing Ministry of Jesus.

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Is it rude to listen-in on other people’s conversations?

Try doing it after worship one week, and pay attention to what, or who, people are talking about. It seems to me that a lot of these conversations are pastoral, and some of them are simply social. But it is rare to hear someone chatting about about their faith or mentioning Jesus.

Buried in bland talk

As a Minister, I’m pleased with the pastoral caring that happens as people share their hopes, joys and concerns with one another. And it’s probably inevitable that everyday life ‘stuff’ gets talked about. But it seems odd that Jesus’ people can meet together …and then leave him out of the conversation.

Why does this happen?

Maybe we are simply not used to talking about our faith and, for whatever reason, we feel awkward mentioning the name of Jesus.

It seems that we happily talk about our other friends, but not about him.

More generally, I wonder how much we talk to each other about our faith?

How readily do we talk about our praying; about what we have discovered in Scripture; about what the Holy Spirit has been saying to us, or how we have seen the Father at work in our lives? In fact, do we even mention Father, Jesus and the Spirit, or do they become buried beneath the non-specific label of ‘God’?

So when it comes to evangelism, I am not surprised to meet Christians who find it hard to talk about Jesus. If we don’t talk about him among friends, then why would we find it easy to talk about him with strangers?

Perhaps this is why so many of us struggle with the idea of evangelism. Quite simply, we are not used to talking about our Saviour. We are not used to hearing his name on our own lips. It sounds strange, and so we feel awkward.

Listen to yourself

I began by asking if it is rude to listen-in on other people’s conversations?

Maybe we should first listen to our own conversations.

So after worship next weekend, listen to yourself and see whether you are talking about Jesus. We need a revolution in our Christian conversations, and you might be the catalyst for changing the way your church talks.

And I wonder …what impact would it have on visitors if they happened to overhear Christians talking about Christ?

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Rev. Paul Stokes is a United Reformed Church Minister in Plymouth, Devon, pastoring at Plymstock United Church (www.plymstock.org.uk).  He is also involved in the UK version of the Dunamis and Ignite courses from PRMI.

Prayer Walking during the RoseBowl

One of my readers (Darrell Davis www.onlyfoundation.org) is at the Rosebowl parade for an outreach.  He sent me this video about prayerwalking prior to the outreach on New Year’s eve.

What I like about this video is the description of praying and while walking how the Lord led them, how they lingered on a street corner for a little while.

“Finished 90 minute walk, and we had come to a corner and didn’t know where to go.  We asked God what direction to go in, and we waited  . . . just like in Acts when Paul was prevented from moving on.  About 10 minutes later ” they had a divine appointment to encourage a pastor and his wife.

If you’d like to know how to do your own prayerwalking, may I recommend the following links?

Prayer Walking and Growing the Church

Prayer Walking — Developing An Evangelistic Vision

Book from Amazon: Follow Me: Becoming a Lifestyle Prayerwalker

2008 Evangelism Coach Review

Looking back over 2008, I wanted to highlight some surprises and joys.  

We did nearly 30 training events in 3 different countries in 2008 and look forward to continuing to grow our ministry.  We’ve expanded our teaching schedule for next year and hope to grow the number of events and retreats. 

Top 10 Articles for the Year

Based on Google information, here are the top 10 pages on this site.

What amazed me was that most of these were written in the early fall of 2008 and became the top pages for the entire year.  I’m also amazed that the series on conversion in Acts and the series on the Definition of Evangelism has fallen out of the top 10

Subscribers

My monthly Evangelism Tips Newsletter saw about 700 new subscribers this year.  Broken down on a monthly basis, I am seeing the rate of growth increase as people who find that newsletter helpful are forwarding it to friends.  As of this writing, about 3-4 people a day are signing up. 

My RSS Feed readership is still under 200.  I think most of my readership doesn’t quite yet use or understand RSS.  See What is RSS? to get an idea on how to keep this blog in your reader.

I’m grateful for the subscribers who do more than simply download the free files, but come back and read. 

Book Sales

I do receive a little income from book sales.  Top selling books this year are

I was surprised that some other books on personal evangelism didn’t make the list of the top 4 books.  My commissions from Amazon usually run about 5-6%.

Upcoming Webinars

By popular demand, the webinars will be returning in 2009.  I have to find a service that is not as expensive as the one that I was using.  If you do webcasting, please help me find a provider that doesn’t cost so much.  I’ve got some ideas in mind, but look forward to late January for new training.

I’m also scheduling expert interviews with people who are actively practicing and doing evangelism who can share their knowledge with you.

Goals for 2009

Here is what I’d like to accomplish in 2009, and I’ll need your help to do it.

  • Grow the evangelism newsletter subscribers by 1300 new subscribers
  • Write more useful articles on greeting visitors.
  • Write more useful articles on personal evangelism.
  • Write a hard copy book on Fear Free Evangelism.
  • Provide 12 webinars for evangelism training.
  • A private members area that will have monthly direct access to me and more advanced cirriculum.

How can you help?

  1. If you don’t already receive it, get my evangelism newsletter every month.  It has useful articles, and the occasional online training announcement.
  2. Use the Tell A Friend Feature when you find a post interesting.
  3. Use the Social bookmarking tools like Tumbler or StumbleUpon
  4. Pray for this ministry.
  5. Grab my Feed and when you find a useful article, forward it and introduce new friends to this ministry.
  6. Register for upcoming events near you.
  7. Buy my book at www.welcomechurchvisitors.com
  8. Make your Amazon Purchases through our links.
  9. Make a donation
  10. Join the discussion and add your thoughts to the comments.

Do you have a Strategy for 2009?

Last year, a blog I read asked:

Do you have an Evangelism Strategy for 2008?

In the that article, the writer’s specific action steps in his plan:

  1. Study and Read.  Do you need books?  Check out our books on evangelism page.
  2. Evangelism Journal. Make notes of quotes, books, and experiences.
  3. Evangelism Plan.  Make a plan to be intentional about sharing your faith.

I like Gary’s idea of an evangelism Journal.  I keep a file on my computer that captures thoughts, quotes, and stuff like that.  I need to find some additional form of capture when I don’t have my laptop with me, or when I’m traveling to and from Evangelism seminars.

Church Evangelism Strategy

  • Send your church leaders to an evangelism training seminar.
  • Host an Evangelism Training Seminar
  • Find an evangelism program like the Alpha course and implement it.
  • Conduct a church hospitality assessment and seek ways to improve the welcoming of visitors.
  • Set a goal for the number of professions of faith, conversions, or baptisms (whatever statistic is an important measure of growth for your church or denomination).
  • Host a regional Evangelism training event.
  • Invite speakers on Evangelism to share a passion.
  • Set your outreach events that are intentionally geared towards your target audience.
  • Host “Invite a friend” Sundays.
  • Develop your holiday sermon series (Easter, Christmas, Mother’s day, etc)?
  • Develop an Evangelism Coaching Group in your church to nurture the passionate.  (See Evangelism Training in the Local Church)

Personal Evangelism Strategy

  • Read at least 3 books on personal evangelism (see our Evangelism Books Page for some ideas).
  • Participate in a group like the one described in Evangelism Training in the Local Church
  • Pray daily for those who do not know Christ.
  • Look for the daily opportunities to have a conversation about your faith.
  • Think through your witnessing conversations and consider what you might have done differently.
  • Journal your evangelism conversations to reflect and learn.
  • Learn a default setting — a basic evangelism gospel script.
  • Instead of counting conversions, count the number of conversations you have.
  • Review your day to see if you missed an opportunity to share your faith.
  • Spend time “doing life” with people apart from the church.  Quit doing Bible Studies all the time. (See: 10 Ideas to Reach Out To Your Neighborhood)
  • Build genuine relationships with your neighbors.

Grab our Free Evangelism Newsletter and you can stay in touch with at least one source that will be reminding you monthly about evangelism to help keep your passion high.

If you need some help developing a plan, consider a mentoring or coaching program.  See the Evangelism Mentoringpage to explore our services.  Do you Need Evangelism coaching?

Let me ask you this?

What would you add to this list?