It is excerpted from his book Hitchhiker’s Guide to Evangelism, available from Chalice Press in fall 2008.
I had the chance to read Bill’s book prior to publishing and am glad to recommend this book to you.
The essential point in Bill’s article states:
“One of the saddest admissions I regularly hear from churched Christians is that they don’t really have any unchurched friends. Now, the key word there is friend.”
When I do a teaching exercise as part of the evangelism workshops that I give, I find the same thing.
I ask people to give me the names of 3 people they are close to who do not go to church and who do not have a relationship with Jesus as best they can tell.
I get lots of blank stares and empty faces.
The answer is often zero.
So how to do develop those new relationships? Bill asks five practical questions / steps to help you think through this.
1. Pull out your calendar. On what two tasks or chores have you spent the most time over the past two months? How does that make you feel: satisfied, justified, horrified, embarrassed, happy, sad?
2. How much time have you spent with an unchurched person? With unchurched people?
3. Who do you know that you could “get to know better” over the next two months? List at least three people. (Note: you may not yet know their names.)
4. List five things you can do to get to better know at least one of the above-listed people. Make sure you include appropriate ways both to meet them more formally and to move past casual introductions.
5. Grab your calendar again and calendar a deadline for meeting and doing something with (or for) this person.
He is the author of a number of books on aspects of spirituality, evangelism, and church growth. In addition, Bill spends much of his time helping congregations navigate their way through the maze of the changing North American culture. He lives in Missouri with his wife Kris.Related posts: