Thanksgiving weekend in the United States America typically involves
- large family gatherings,
- more food than one could eat,
- and for some families, hours of discussions about football and the weather (that may seem meaningless),
- and rehashing old family stories.
For others, thanksgiving weekend might be a time to
- visit friends
- serve as a volunteer in a community dinner
- go shopping on Black Friday
- Prepare the house or apartment with Christmas decorations.
No matter what your participation is, look for ways to talk about how thankful you are for what Christ as done for you. Use moments that are appropriate to share what God has done in your life. Here are 4 tips to being intentional in personal evangelism this thanksgiving.
4 Tips to Share Your Faith During Thanksgiving
Here are some things to consider ahead of time about sharing your faith during this Thanksgiving Holiday.
1. Pray ahead of time.
Ask God to make you sensitive to His leading about when and what to share during Thanksgiving.
Approach thanksgiving with the idea that you’ll have opportunity to share with family and friends what you are truly thankful for: the outrageous grace offered to you in Christ Jesus.
When you pray, you’ll be ready to notice when God underlines a moment for you.
Read: Pray First then Watch
2. Brainstorm some possible discussion questions.
It may seem that discussions of Christmas shopping plans, the weather, football, are meaningless and dull.
Retelling old family stories can be an embarrassing rehashing of events that would better left to the dustbin of history, or they could be a good part of family identity and bonding.
But as a commenter on my prior post pointed out, these things may be valuable to your family and friends. They are points of connection and it is important to value what your friends and family value.
However, during the course of discussions, you might find a natural time to talk about your faith, or raise questions that could move a conversation in that direction.
Brainstorm some possible door opening questions ahead of time. For example,
- If you could ‘do Thanksgiving’ in a fresh, new, totally different way, what would that look like for you? Would it include a God-focus? Why or why not?
- What’s the one thing you are most thankful for this year? Why?
- Is Thanksgiving more of a time for being thankful to God or being thankful to others? How?
- Is it tough to be thankful this year? Why or Why not?
3. Look and Listen for the Spiritual Thirst
As conversations unfold, a person might share a spiritual need, which is an expression of spiritual thirst.
You might not even need to ask questions to find it.
Or, questions like the ones above could open conversation paths into spiritual needs.
These can naturally go on to deeper things about your relationship with Christ and the gospel.
You might hear of a person’s spiritual thirst and can appropriately point them to the water of life.
The key is to look and listen.
You’ve been praying. Watch for how God will answer that.
4. Take the time to share.
Take the time to share your experience of God’s working in your life.
Feel free to tell appropriate stories of God’s current activity in your life, particularly where you are thankful.
Look for those moments to talk about your thankfulness for what God has done for you in bringing you salvation.
Look for those “natural” conversational opportunities.
Some evangelism practitioners will not only look for conversational openings, but will create them or cause them to happen. Go for it.
You might still be learning how to confidently talk about their faith and need other people to start the conversation.
Either way, look for those opportunities to share and go for it.
Have fun this Thanksgiving.
My own Personal Evangelism Teaching on DVD
I have a DVD (or digital download) set that focuses on a conversational style evangelism that would be effective this Thanksgiving:
- casual conversation between friends
- causal conversation between strangers
Read more about the Effective Evangelism Conversations in the store
It is a recording of a live seminar I gave in 2012.